Teaching your child the ways of life is one thing, but making them study with a yearning to learn is another. The summer highs are not so easily worn off, and the happy rush from playtime makes proper looking a struggle.
Getting your kids into a studying rhythm is a struggle for any parent. After a lengthy amount of summer and play times, it’s back to school again, and kids are in a slump about getting down to business. So the question is, how will parents instill good study habits? Gramlich’s book’s initial stages of communication provide good material for any parent struggling to make their child practice good study habits that will shape their lives for the long haul.
Let’s explore these good study habits you can try practicing on your kids to help them recalibrate towards learning.
1 – Organize Everything
Whether it’s textbook homework, extracurricular activities, or exams, you should jot down these events to keep track of your child’s activities since they’re still in that stage where they need your supervision. Organizing them in your calendar or planner will help you stay on track and will aid you in making plans for your kids’ study times.
2 – Manage Your Expectations
The last thing we would want is to meet unexpected situations involving your child’s performance in school. Whether it’s for academics or something else, you should be mentally prepared for the workload they will endure. This is important because you are your child’s anchor during their early learning stages in life, so you must be there for them if they find it hard to study and prepare for daunting school tasks.
But in another circumstance, you must set realistic expectations for your child. Remember that they’re not studying machines. Society may build the system to make it seem that way. Still, it is your job as a parent to gently guide and encourage your children to be the best version of themselves until they become functional members of society. They should be comfortable but, at the same time, serious about studying diligently so they get good grades and not be lazy in doing school-related tasks.
3 – Get a Dedicated Study Area
Your child’s focus will mostly depend on where they are. Letting your child study on the bed is a bad idea since that efficiently induces laziness and sleep. That is why you should prepare a designated area for studying so they can focus entirely on their studies. But ensure that you must make your child comfortable to a certain extent but not too much that they feel relaxed and cozy to procrastinate.
4 – Reinforce Positive Thinking
Instilling positive thoughts into your child will significantly impact their approach to studying. Teach them positive affirmations that will make them take pleasure in studying diligently to feel motivated. That will undoubtedly reflect on their academic performance. You are an essential key to your child’s learning development stage, so you must positively do your part so that it will reap great rewards. Your child might even learn gratification from it.
Avoid words that will shift your child’s mindset to regress, making them think that they’ll never get anywhere in life, no matter how hard they try.
5 – Prepare Far Ahead Into the Future
When you have a child, part of being a parent is setting up their future so they will feel settled no matter what happens. As early as your child’s toddler stage, you must teach them to study hard to carry on those habits as they grow older. Finances play a significant role in your child’s educational opportunities, so you, as a parent, must be thoughtfully prepared; for whether your child will opt for college or not.
6 – Support Their Dreams
Does your child want to be a doctor? A teacher or, perhaps, an artist? Do not dictate what they desire for their future, even if it might change a second later or not. It’s good that they have some goal in mind to motivate them to study. It’s your job to support their dreams rather than downplaying them. Allow your kids the freedom to be what they want to be in the future.
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